How to Form a Proper Character Of Your Kid

For each parent the process of bringing up the children under 5 years old is considered to be one of the most difficult tasks. Why? - The matter is that, according to the specialists' point of view, the basis of the child's character is laid during this period.

Up to 2 years old age usually there are no any problems, the only things the parents should do are to take care of the baby and to comfort him/her from time to time. But beginning from 2 years old age, the child often becomes completely naughty. During this period, the baby's emotional state is changing rapidly.

For example, he/she can want a new kids power wheels or start asking you to purchase a modern self balancing scooter. And everything in the same time. Your son or daughter can be calm and happy, and a minute later becomes nervous and quite out of control. Here is a list of the recommendations, which will help you to avoid major problems.

·             Calmness. This is a basic rule that must be complied by the parents, no matter how the child is behaving. Unfortunately, many moms and dads often begin yelling at a crying baby, as a result he/she gets nervous even more. By the way a child may be frightened by your strong cry or sudden movements and start to protest screaming even more loud. That is the reason why calmness is considered to be very important in the children's education.

·             Own example. It is of common knowledge that the children usually copy their parents' behavior. That is why the parents should show their kids a proper example. Such education is believed the most effective one. Of course, the child will copy both good and bad things that is why it is recommended to hide bad habits and improper features of character while you are together with your kid. Parents should make maximum emphasis on good deeds, which must be regularly done. On your own example show your baby the appreciation of physical exercises, healthy lifestyles, creative qualities etc.

·             Insistence. All parents love their children and try to forgive them any actions. But if you want your child to be obedient, you must be demanding. The promotion is always good, but you should be demanded as well as sufficiently strict. The rules should be observed and the kid has to be punished if they are violated.

How to help your child become a sociable

In order to bring up a sociable child, which will be popular with other children, it is recommended not to care him/her much from the very beginning. Allow him or her to be among the other children of the same age and give your kid some freedom to develop independence. Change the environment in which you baby lives and goes to school as little as possible. Allow him/her to dress, to talk, to play and to behave like the neighbor's children do, even if you do not approve of their manners. Of course, it doesn't mean that you can allow your toddle to be like a bully. If the child is told by parents to meet the highest standards and ideals, this fact will affect the kid's character and will appear later. But vice versa if the parents do not like their area and the company of their children, if they are brought up in him/her a feeling that he/she is different from the others, without encouragement the friendship with other children, the baby will be left outside of any group and will not achieve happiness in life. So let them play together, for example, with remote control toys for kids and pay attention to the details of the behavior.

If a child finds it difficult to make friends, he/she will be helped by study at the school or in the classroom with a flexible program where the teacher will be able to use the abilities of every kid. In this case the other children will be able to appreciate all the advantages.

Parents can also help the child, of course. It should be friendly and welcoming to children, which are invited to your home for the games. Ask the small guests to have dinner in your house. Treat them to their favorite dishes. If you are going to have a picnic, an excursion or a tour, or just go to the movies, invite another child to which your child would like to make friends.

Your goal is to encourage your son or daughter, to give him/her a chance to join the group, which previously hasn't been allowed due to the age-group tendency or shyness. In such a way it will be easier for a small person to take an advantage of the own strengths and make friends with other children.